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3-4-4-3 Custody Schedule

The 3-4-4-3 schedule gives each parent one shorter block (3 days) and one longer block (4 days) per two-week cycle. It balances weekday and weekend time evenly between both parents.

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Overnights
Mom: 16 · Dad: 14
MTWTFSS
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182/183overnights per year
4exchanges per 14-day cycle
About this schedule

How It Works

In Week 1, Parent A has 3 days and Parent B has 4 days. In Week 2, it flips — Parent B has 3 days and Parent A has 4 days. This ensures both parents get a mix of weekday and weekend time over the two-week cycle.

Pros

  • ✓Balanced mix of weekday and weekend time for both parents
  • ✓Moderate transition frequency (2 per week)
  • ✓Longer blocks than the 2-2-3 provide more stability
  • ✓Both parents share school and weekend responsibilities

Cons

  • ✗The alternating pattern can be confusing without a shared calendar
  • ✗4-day stretches may feel long for very young children
  • ✗Requires coordination for midweek transitions
  • ✗Less predictable than schedules with fixed weekdays

Best For

  • •Families who want equal weekday and weekend sharing
  • •Children ages 5+ who handle moderate transitions well
  • •Parents who want longer blocks than 2-2-3 but shorter than alternating weeks
  • •Co-parents willing to use a shared calendar app

Frequently Asked Questions

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